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A very warm welcome from Carmen Sutra:
I love my readers! Got a question? A reader is bound to have
the answer. Last week readers asked about sexual positions
for pregnant couples, the "male g-spot", S&M, and more. I
am thrilled to report that we have answers to each of these.
Plus, SO MANY of you responded to our "Let's Save Some Lives"
article regarding domestic violence. Thank you all for
sharing your stories and insight with us. I wish you and your
families the very best.
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Today's Topic: Reader Comments
Carmen:
For those that do anal sex, or put fingers into rectum, DO
NOT then put penis or fingers into the vagina. Any small
amount of fecal matter may infect the woman. Thanks for all
the letters
Hi Carmen,
This is in response to the reader who is pregnant. I have a
9 month old son, so I have some experience in this area. My
partner and I used to try many different positions, the best
turning out to be any position that took weight off my ever-
growing belly. One might assume that the mom lie on her back
during intercourse, but this really can't be done because 1.
it gets really uncomfortable the farther along she gets, and
2. after about 4 months of pregnancy the uterus begins to put
a dangerous amount of pressure on an important artery if the
mother lies on her back. I would advise any pregnant mother
to steer clear of the traditional missionary position.
"Woman on top" was my favorite during pregnancy. My partner
loved my large belly and larger breasts, he thought my body
was very sexy. Another position that was great for me was
side-lying. I would lay on my side, as would my partner,
and he would penetrate from behind. Or, I would lay on my
side towards the side/end of the bed, and my partner would
stand next to the bed and enter me. Overall, I really enjoyed
pregnant sex and experimenting with many different positions.
Good luck!
Hey Carmen,
The lady who's afraid to search inside for her boyfriends g-
spot should know that the right amount of massage and pressure
on the area between the anus and the sack will bring about
the same sensations. I have had great orgasms with and with-
out having my partner go inside. She could always do what the
doctor does during my physical too and put on a latex glove
(and lube!) for interior probing. Love your newsletter, keep
it up. No pun intended.
Carmen,
I'm not completely positive that this is the same as the Male
G-Spot - but I'm able to give my boyfriend an extra crazy
orgasm by stimulating what we call "his G-Spot" by massaging
the area between his butthole and his balls, it's his perenium
muscle? (sorry about the spelling).... pressing there when
he's about to cum in my mouth is a pretty amazing feeling he
tells me....is this different from the other suggestion of
the male G-Spot? I'm a little confused. No fingers in the
butt, thank you, this works well without that ~!
Hi Carmen,
I'm writing in response to the person who wrote in to you
about Domination. I'm 44 and was a slave to a Mistress. My
Mistress gave me a book and said read this before you become
my slave. I did and was very enlightened by this book it
really opened my mind about the world of B&D, S&M. It led to
many great times with my Mistress. The book was Sensuous
Magic by Pat Califia, but it maybe out of print my copy is
from 1996. I would suggest they do some research read and
learn before diving right in to it. A former Rage Slave.
Hi Carmen,
I just recently started receiving your newsletter, and am
loving it so far. You received a note recently from a girl
who's guy has expressed an interest in having her become his
"Mistress". I have been with my husband for almost two years
(just got married in July of '07). We met through one of
those online dating sites, and when we started chatting, he
asked if he could call me Mistress. I told him I didn't mind,
and as we got to know one another better, it has become easier
for me to be the dominant lover he wants me to be. I used to
be very submissive before I met Jay, and would do whatever my
guy of the moment wanted to do, not realizing I could lay
down the law about what would be done, in what order, and for
how long, until I said things were done. Having that power is
rather addicting.
The woman requesting some information should definitely make
sure to sit down with her man, and see exactly what he wants
in his Mistress, as there are different types. I would suggest
the book "The Mistress Manual" by Mistress Lorelei. I have
found it very useful in planning scenarios. And having a
paddle, crop or whip is a definite must for keeping her sub-
missive in line! I prefer my paddle, with the heart-shape
cut-outs. They leave such nice marks on my Slave's backside!
Keep up the great work with the newsletter, and I hope my
advice helps J with her decision.
[Re: Abusive Relationships]
Carmen,
You're the greatest, I wish that I would have had someone
like you to go to when I was in that situation. As for the
young lady, I understand exactly what she is going through.
I lived in a marriage like that for many years. There was
emotional and physical abuse. I had always heard the first
time is the hardest and unless they are willing to get coun-
seling that it won't stop and all those things proved true.
After he pushed me the first time it made hitting me easy for
him because that's what happened. Him and I had children so
I used the I'm staying for the kids but it only hurt my kids,
I realized that when my oldest son at 11 yrs old told me that
he wanted to run away to get away from his dad but he was
afraid that if he did that his dad would hurt me or the baby.
That's when I realized it was time to get out. He never
physically abused the kids but the emotional abuse was there
for all of us. When we left we had little or no self esteem
and it took awhile for it to come back but we all know that
we deserve to be happy and loved and won't settle for less.
I truly hope this young lady puts her safety and her children's
safety first and listens to her gut feeling (don't go back).
If he won't get counseling he won't stop the abuse. I wish her
luck........Been there done that in Texas
Carmen,
Thank you so much for the e-mail. As a child from an abusive
home, I really hope that the reader leaves her boyfriend be-
cause reading that letter was like reliving what my mom went
through. I really encourage her to go to any public library
and sit down for a couple of hours and do some research about
women in and survivors of abusive relationships. Thanks again!
Carmen,
My daughter was in a bad marriage. She had 2 daughters. On
Nov 17, 2007 my son-in-law filled the bedroom with natural
gas and lit a lighter killing both of them. Her daughters,
our granddaughters, were at our house are now living with us.
If you can get out now before it is to late. It may not end
up this bad but a bad marriage is no place to live in.
[I am so sorry for your daughter and your entire family. My
heart truly goes out to all of you. Thank you for sharing this
with us. I hope others take this to heart.]
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Carmen,
I have been reading your column for several years now and have
never been motivated to respond, until now. I believe you gave
this girl the correct advice and information regarding domestic
violence. As a law enforcement officer I would also like to
add that she needs to report this abuse to a law enforcement
agency. This should be done to put the incident on record with
the agency, even if they take no action immediately due to the
reporting lag time. Information such as this is critical in
the event something happens in the future to either the victim
or her children.
Please understand that law enforcement agencies need this
type of information on file to have a starting place for any
investigations that may be necessary in the future. Of course
we hope that there is no reason for LE to get involved in the
future. Domestic violence is a terrible cycle and she would
be saving herself as well as her children and their future
if she never saw this individual again. Thanks for all you
do to keep our lives exciting.
CARMEN_
INSTINCT-----INSTINCT-----INSTINCT-----INSTINCT-----INSTINCT,
TRUST YOUR GUT FEELING, IT IS CORRECT !!!!!
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Once again, thank you all so much for sharing so generously
this week. As a reminder, the National Domestic Violence
hotline number is 1-800-799-SAFE and the website is
http://www.ndvh.org Have a wonderful weekend, everyone!
As always, I remain...
Devotedly yours,
Carmen Sutra
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