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A very warm welcome from Carmen Sutra:
WARNING: YOU MIGHT GET TURNED ON READING THIS NEWSLETTER.
Duh, right? But this week's reader comments especially! In
response to our oral vs. intercourse discussion, several of
you sent explicit details and descriptions about the former,
but I'll let you read those for yourself. I also included
another embarrassing sex story because it seems we all
enjoy them!
Plus, on a health-related issue, Type II Diabetes has been
increasing for a while, and this can often impact our sexual
lives. Thus, I included three responses from men who have
experienced this and have advice for everyone else. Thank
you.
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Today's Topic: Reader Comments
Carmen,
As I've gotten older I love the oral and my guy can do it so
well. We don't even really do the oral thing he plays with my
clit and makes me cum. So I guess in our case it's not even
oral or intercourse its the playing with. You've never really
discussed this area of sex here. He lays between my legs and
rubs and plays with my clit and drives me wild he has learned
how to just about bring me to orgasm and then stops and does
something different like kiss my thigh and run his fingers up
and own my thigh all the time knowing I'm ready to explode.
It's just that short stopping that then sends me over the edge
as he starts back on me again.
Carmen,
Love your column, I read it all the time. In response to what
do the ladies prefer? Personally, I prefer oral (with some
finger play too). There is more variety in what I'm feeling
and definitely a higher likelihood of me getting off. With
intercourse, I don't really get off at all. Also, there's
something very erotic about looking down and seeing my man's
face in my most personal area. Definitely a more intimate
act for both people.
Now, I also enjoy it when my man gets me off a couple times
and then immediately gets on top of me and finishes with
intercourse. The only drawback to that is that he has to
forego his blow job (unless I get him off first, then we play
long enough for him to want to come again inside me, but
that's very uncommon). The man I'm currently with has never
gone down on a woman (he's "working on it") so the picture
is a little different these days, but I'm holding out hope
that we'll be able to share that. In the meantime, I still
enjoy going down on him but honestly, not as much as if it
were a two-way street. What really matters most is how we
feel about each other, anything else can be worked out.
Hey Carmen-
love the column! Would like to weigh in on the oral vs inter-
course discussion from a woman's perspective. There are times
when the urge strikes me to take complete control, and that
always means oral. I absolutely LOVE to see my lover's reaction
when I push him back, pull off his pants so I can get my mouth
on him. I always say that his penis is my favorite candy. I
experiment with all sorts of different techniques with my
tongue and hands and he usually gets rock hard as soon as he
realizes what I am about to do.
To me, there is nothing better than when I look up and see
him watching me perform with a blissful smile on his face.
Of course, that only gets me wetter, and eventually, I have
to jump on top and ride him. Either that, or he will grab me
and take over and that sends me over the moon! He is equally
good at giving me oral as well. Yes, there are many times
when I gulp every last drop that he has to offer. I can tell
how much he loves it when I do-he has told me more than once
that he has never received better head in his life. Prefer-
ence? In the end, I always have to have him inside me at some
point. But- I have no issue whatsoever with taking good care
of him beforehand! Look forward to reading much more in 2008!
Happy New Year!
Carmen~
Funny this topic came up...I have recently wondered this same
thing about my guy... I have to ask him (honey if you are
reading this..? lol) I venture to think he prefers oral..
Anyway, I much prefer intercourse over oral. It is a totally
different sensation and orgasm. As much as I love to hold his
"thumbs" while he goes wild on me I love and prefer the con-
tact of intercourse..The visual is so intense! Skin to skin,
looking into his gorgeous blue eyes, feeling his gorgeous,
muscular arms and watching his muscles strain as he looms
above me, or behind me or around me etc..lol Plus, there is
such a connection through intercourse that is missing with
oral. So honey, if you are reading, I'd prefer intercourse
with you any day! I'll prove it later ;)
As always~ Thanks Carmen for a wonderful, very enlightening
newsletter!
Carmen,
I love intercourse but of course nothing can compare to giv-
ing my man a deep sensual oral stimulated as I say love making
session with him this way. He loves receiving my mouth. I work
on him slowly and so much enjoy how hot and wet my mouth gets
not to mention how wet I get. It's a turn on to both of us.
If you just close your eyes, try and pretend what would feel
good to you and bring on him. He loves how wet my mouth gets
with the sounds of wetness of sucking. He might not be that
huge but when the play starts OMG, he surely zooms out and I
cannot help but give it to him more.
Carmen,
I am a male 68 with type II diabetes. I have found that L-
Arginine is good for helping me with a hard on. Also, My mind
is important in this area, I need to think stimulating thoughts
to make it happen. You can buy L-Arginine in herb and health
food stores and follow directions. Any questions about taking
it, ask your Doctor if it is okay for you to take. BTW the
sex pills in convenience stores contains this herb. Keep the
articles cumming.
Hi Carmen;
Have enjoyed your column for a long time, keep up the good
work. In regards to the couple where the guy has type II
diabetes; I have type II diabetes also and have the same ED
problem. After discussing this with my Dr. he gave me a pre-
scription for levitra. It Works. It isn't perfect, but allows
my wife and I to continue to enjoy our intimate moments. I'm
61 years old and been married for a looooong time,,, am not
yet ready to give up.. Talk to your Dr. and see if this is a
solution to your problem... It works for me.
Carmen,
I am a 69 year-old male with Type II diabetes. My first wife
died of endometrial cancer in June 2006, 2 days short of 44
years of our wedding anniversary, and I remarried a wonderful
lady I met online the following September after corresponding
with her for 4 years previously. The sex life my first wife
and I had was not much because of my not getting any erections
due mostly to my diabetes. Being a sexual person, this was very
difficult for me and I was determined that I was going to use
every method possible to correct the problem with my new wife.
I tried all the pills - Viagra, Lavetra, Cialis - nothing
worked. Finally I went to a urologist and he suggested the
method whereby I would inject a special tri-mix solution into
my penis. This sounded painful but I was willing to try any-
thing. The end of this story is that it worked and was not as
bad as I first thought it would be. The needle used is very
short and there is no discomfort. The area injected is on the
side of the penis and only takes a few seconds to administer.
The tri-mix solution can only be obtained (in my case) from a
Compounding Pharmacy but I'm sure there are other compounds
available elsewhere. The only drawback to using the injected
mixture is it was expensive ($69 for a few ml) and there needs
to be a 3 day wait in between injections. My sex life now is
great and I am a very happy man who is living with my diabetes
and a wonderfully understanding woman. And oh yes - intercourse
AND oral sex are equally great now!
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Hey Carmen,
Happy 2008! I'm actually caught up with my Great Sex reading,
so I thought I'd shoot you a line about one of my embarrassing
sex stories - I think it was more like an embarrassing post-sex
story.
My husband and I were renting a mobile home, and we occasion-
ally like to switch rooms so we were doing it in the living
room, and it was during the afternoon. We hear a knock on the
door and it's the landlord - he's there to take pictures for
his insurance or something. Oops! I throw on a t-shirt (and
that's it) and I think hubby grabbed a pair of stretch pants,
but we didn't have time to shut the suitcase with the sex toys
in it. We open the door, discover the landlord HAS to come in
to get his photos ("it'll only take a few minutes"), so we
stand in front of the open suitcase - like we're really hiding
anything, right? ;)
Somehow, of course, he also needs pictures in that direction
or something - somehow it became necessary to shut the suit-
case. So then I find myself trying to crouch so I can close
the suitcase without letting him see my butt...I'm fairly
sure I wasn't successful in hiding myself. Ack! As you said,
I can laugh now. I'm cc'ing my husband on this - see if he
remembers this little incident... ;)
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Thank you, as always, to everyone who shared their stories,
opinions, and advice this week! This is your newsletter and
a whole new year, my Great SEXers, so what do you want to
read about? What's on your sexual mind? What do you need
help with or want to share? Send me an email with "2008
topic" or something similar in the title and I will check
it out this weekend. As always, I remain...
Devotedly yours,
Carmen Sutra
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