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A very warm welcome from Carmen Sutra:
Yikes, yikes, yikes. Proceed with caution, folks. Today's
round of reader comments if full of controversial questions
and pleas: how do you tell your friend of 10 years that her
boyfriend is cheating, how do you convince your partner not
to be threatened by your vibrator, plus bad breath, shaving,
and cuddle time. I'll just let you read everything for
yourself.
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Hi Carmen,
I've had a friend for 10 + years. In the last year and a half,
I set her up with one of my boyfriend's friends. They hit it
off, and even got engaged. Over the course of the last year
and a half though, out friendship has faded and we are nowhere
near as close as we used to be. Here is where the problem is,
because I don't know how to talk to her anymore. I found out
that her now fiance is cheating on her. A mutual friend found
this out and sent me emails, dating web site pages, and even
nude photos that the fiance is mailing out. He claims to be
looking for "just a fun time" and leaves his number/email for
contact info.
What do I do with this information? If I sit her down and try
to talk to her, she'll call me a liar and it will probably
completely end our friendship (early on in their relationship,
I mentioned that I thought he was up to no good, hence the
current status of our friendship.) If I don't tell her...well
I just think it's wrong. If the situation was reversed, I hope
someone would tell me. Help??! Thanks, A confused friend
[I'm gonna have to go with don't get involved in this one.
Readers: what do you think?]
Hi Carmen;
You are amazing; just when I'm dealing with this; there you
are with a column about this! I almost always want to make
love when my husband does and he is a good lover; usually
making me orgasm before he ever enters me. But, after he
comes, I'd like some intimate time; he says if he talks, he
gets too awake, so he goes to sleep, and I lay there unhappy.
Finally, I told him that I needed to be held and cuddled after
our love making. He rejected that idea, but said it made him
mad that I felt he wasn't meeting my needs.
I was hurt and then got mad, so told him that if there was
ever another woman, for him just to give her some money, then
go to sleep; that took care of his obligations. Obviously,
the wrong thing to say; he got really mad; said he'd never
treated any woman like a prostitute. Then said it would take
him time to forget that I said that, so we weren't making love
for awhile! I've apologized, which he accepted, but still no
love making; over a week now. I know I was wrong in saying
what I did, but am I wrong in expecting the closeness that
usually comes after the love making? Isn't that one of my
sexual needs? Or should I just be happy with the sex, and
forget this? Thanks for your columns; they are so helpful!
A loyal reader
[There are many dynamics conflicting here and you both sound
hurt. Bottom line: you both need to find a way to compromise
on this, even if it means agreeing to "cuddle" after lovemak-
ing for a specified amount of time, like five minutes. You
both need to agree and have your needs met at the same time.
Good luck to you.]
Carmen,
I know you have touched on this before, but maybe you can
bring it up again soon. What is the best way to explain to
my hubby that a vibrator is not a threat to him or our sex
lives?
[This is SUCH A COMMON REACTION!!! Men, please respond!!!]
Hi Carmen,
I love your column and have gotten great advice to enhance my
lovemaking! In regards to kissing, I love kissing and I find
it very important not only in my lovemaking but all the time
as well. My problem is that my wife has a problem with ex-
tremely bad breath, even after she has brushed her teeth and
used mouth wash. I have gently and lovingly shared this con-
cern with her (and to see a dentist about this) but she refuses
to do so, and I don't push the subject any more. I love french
kissing, especially in fore play and lovemaking but her breath
is a total turn off and so I don't kiss her much anymore. I
hope this doesn't sound selfish or inconsiderate and would
love any advice from you or other readers on this. Thanks
[That's an unfortunate dilemma. If she still has issues after
mouthwash and brushing her teeth, then I would also agree that
a trip to the dentist is in order. Readers, what say you? I'm
sure there are plenty of other people experiencing this. For
what it's worth, you don't sound selfish or inconsiderate
at all.]
Hi Carmen,
I swear by leg waxing. With shaving, you get the stiff
stubble the next day. I wax my legs every 4-8 weeks, and the
hair grows back very thinly, to the point where I barely have
to shave between waxes. I used to have thick, dark hair on my
legs, and now i have thin little blond hairs. Like all waxing,
it hurts less the time goes on. The front isn't bad at all any-
way, the back is a little worse. But I don't do above the knee,
it gets pricey and I'm all blond there anyway.
Carmen,
I dated a guy years ago who would shave every now and then,
I loved it! No pesky hairs up my nose!! And guys, when you
shave, it makes your dick look HUGE!! I’m a phone sex operator,
and I know not everyone is truthful on there, but it seems
like more and more guys are telling me that they shave, or
even wax. I was really surprised at how many say they do.
Love your column!!
Hi Carmen,
Love your newsletter! I just had to write and comment about
men shaving! For Christmas 3 years ago I decided to give my
wife the "gift" of shaving my pubes & I haven't gone back!
Boy, the first time was rough, as I didn't know what I was
doing. I do not recommend a razor, and have found
www.beavershaver.com to be quite a help.
I struggle with razor bumps, but there is a Seiko C-battery
powered shaver that works just great. It is not painful, and
wifey (of 22 years) loves going down on my smooth dick and
balls. The sensation for me is great, also. I also highly
recommend a product known as "Tend Skin" to reduce irritation
and the razor bump problem. Bottom line is - men do not need
pubic hair!! Rather, I suggest to try it, but give it a
couple months before you decide (it may seem quite odd at
first). There is plenty of information on the internet to help.
[Continued...]
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Hi,
Regarding the drug Gabapentin which one of your readers
mentioned for depression. I took it for a week and (at a
different time) my partner took it for a week and we both had
the same side effect - we felt like running away from our
lives. I'm fortunate that I realized it was from the drug as
he didn't put the feelings he was having together with the
new medication (although I told him to be on the lookout for
it). It came to my attention as the holidays were approaching
and he didn't even want to see his kids (whom he always loves
to spend time with). Although this drug may indeed work for
some, it had this odd side effect on both of us which I feel
others should be aware of.
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Thank you to everyone for sharing their stories, questions,
and advice this week. If you respond to one of today's letters,
please put something related in the subject header. Have a
wonderful weekend, my little Great SEXers! I'm off to research
Monday's topic: the Swedish Massage. Hint - it's not what you
think. But you'll just have to tune in after the weekend to
find out... :) As always, I remain...
Devotedly yours,
Carmen Sutra
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