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DEAR ABBY - March 27, 2008
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RENEWAL OF VOWS CAN EARN WOWS EVEN ON TIGHT BUDGET
ABBY: I couldn't help but be touched by the letter from
Steve W. in Phoenix (Jan. 12), the retired Vietnam vet who
wanted to give his wife of 40 years the "full-blown wedding
she deserved."
My husband and I are retired and recently celebrated our
30th with a "renewal of vows" ceremony. It doesn't have to
break the bank.
We planned a year in advance and saved money just for that
occasion. I wore a secondhand wedding gown. My daughter and
I shopped for decorations (instead of flowers) at the dollar
store. It was beautiful.
Since I am retired military, I was able to use the chapel
and the club on base, which was quite reasonable. But there
are all kinds of other relatively inexpensive options for a
reception -- local fire hall, church basement or, in the
summer, a public park.
My grown children are musicians, and they "gifted" us with
their music at the chapel. We hired a DJ -- which didn't
cost much -- and friends took photos and videos for us.
Abby, our first wedding was nice, but it was mostly for
others. Our second wedding was for me and my husband -- and
it was everything we hoped it would be.
-- BOBBIE IN NORRISTOWN, PA.
BOBBIE: Congratulations on your 30th anniversary, and thank
you for sharing your experience with me and my readers. Read
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ABBY: You don't have to spend a lot of money for a renewal
of vows. If you belong to a church, it will usually donate
use of its social hall or sanctuary. The church surely will
have some talented members who can help with decorations.
Food shouldn't be a problem -- you can do punch/coffee/cake
for less than $50. The entire event could be handled for
under $300.
To Steve W.'s "children": Think of your parents. You don't
know how long you'll have them. Chip in (yes, use some of
YOUR money) and make this a memorable occasion for them.
-- BECKI IN GARDEN GROVE, CALIF.
ABBY: We asked our new priest if he would give us a special
blessing on our 45th. To our surprise, we were called up to
the altar after Mass, and he renewed our vows in front of
the entire congregation.
Since then, the priest has done this for other couples.
Some dress up and wear corsages. Pews are reserved for
family and friends. What a beautiful tradition he has
started. The congregation is happy to be included in this
wonderful event. There is no cost involved. Afterward
couples can have a small reception in their homes.
-- BOB AND KAREN IN EAST MOLINE, ILL.
ABBY: My husband and I have survived a lot in our marriage,
and are each other's best friend and soul mate. When we
decided to renew our vows, we found a good deal on a three-
day trip to Las Vegas last April, and had the ceremony at
an Elvis chapel there. Please tell Steve that if his wife
liked Elvis, having an impersonator officiate the ceremony,
then sing and escort your "bride" is an awesome way to do
it. Our four kids still laugh and dance to our DVD copy
almost a year later.
Airlines and hotels always have deals for going to Vegas,
and since you are married already, no license or minister
is necessary. Silly as it sounds, it's a great time your
wife will never forget.
-- LORIANN IN WASHINGTON STATE
ABBY: For their 50th anniversary, my siblings and I decided
to give our parents the big wedding they never had. Their
sacrifice, love and spiritual guidance have shown us how to
live wonderful lives. We gave them the party we could afford.
The happiness on their faces that day will warm our hearts
forever. Dad still asks, "How much did it cost?" to which I
kiddingly respond, "That's none of your business!"
-- HAPPY IN TEXAS
ABBY is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as
Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline
Phillips. Write ABBY at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box
69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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